What Is In A Name?
Names are very important in every society. From the days of creation, names have been used as a means of identifying an object, a place, animal or a thing.Names have deep meanings across different cultures. In Africa, specifically West Africa (Ghana) where I come from, names have deep significance and meaning to the parents or families. Due to this, families are very conscious of the names they give to their children. There are many reasons why this is so, one of such is the belief that the name given to a child can have an either a positive or negative impact on the child. So in the Ashanti tribe for example, children are given names like "Adom" which means Grace, "Akyedie"- Gift, "Nyamekye"-God’s gift,"Nhyira"-Blessings and so many others to project a family's gratitude to God for the child or to demonstrate how special the child is to the family.
Apart from these names, in the Ashanti tribe, every girl and boy must have a day name. This name is given to the child based on the day that they are born. It is therefore not surprising to see names like Kojo and Adwoa for a boy and girl born on monday, Kwabena and Abena (Tuesday), Kwaku and Akua (Wednesday), Yaw and Yaa (Thursday), Kofi and Afia(Friday), Kwame and Ama (Saturday) and Kwesi and Akosua for Sunday. Hence, the moment someone mentions their name, you can easily identify the day he/she was born.
Names hold a lot of significance in my culture, names are not given to children just by chance. My name for example is Nana Asantewaa. The name “Nana” is a title conferred to people from a royal family. The name Asantewaa though in recent times used by all was in the past a name associated with royalty. The name was from the queen Yaa Asantewaa who led the Asantes in a war against the British. The name therefore demonstrates a strong or courageous character. I was born on a Saturday thus, Ama. My name is therefore Nana Ama Asantewaa. There are terms of endearment or pet names used in my family. For example, I am called "Naana" at home by my family, my sisters are called "Mamaa" and "Mefia" respectively. These are all short forms of our names and used mostly by family or close relatives.
Names are very significant and it is important for people to be able to learn the right pronunciation of names. For example; choosing to call me “Asa”, or “Asant” holds no significance to me. That will not be my name as shortening my name or choosing to pronounce it differently takes away from my name. Thus, to avoid a situation like Covarrubias, a teacher can ask for the right pronunciation to a name and use it accordingly so as not to offend the individual.
My perspective is very similar to that of Covarrubias father. It is one thing to be ignorant but in this modern world, there is so much access to knowledge that one cannot just dwell in ignorance and mediocrity and use it as an excuse to act in a certain way. People are constantly learning and it is therefore essential to understand the importance people attach to their identity. One can always make a conscious effort to learn and correct mistakes. In this day and age, ignorance is not really an excuse especially as the world we know it now is a global village and we are all connected and knowledge is most often than not just a click away.
References:
Agyekum, K. (2006). The socio-linguistic of Akan personal names. Nordic Journal of African Studies 15(2): 206–235 (2006). Retrieved from http://www.njas.helsinki.fi/pdf-files/vol15num2/agyekum.pdf
Lustig, M. W. & Koester, J. (Eds.). (2006). Among Us: Essays on identity, belonging, and intercultural competence (2nd ed.). Boston: Pearson Allyn and Bacon.
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I enjoyed reading your blog Amanda, and I have learned so much about how a name is decided before a child is born. I love how each person is given a name according to the day he/she was born. I agreed with you on your last point. I believe that if a person wants to know you more, they take the time to ask questions and hear about your culture. Thank you for sharing.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Pule!!! I am glad you enjoyed it as well.
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DeleteHi Amanda! That was a great perspective. As for the ignorance, I think that there are people who just don't want to know and thus choose to continuously wallow in their ignorance. It's a pity but it's up to us to keep projecting our cultural identity in a positive light and thereby attract the right vibes from even the most ignorant of people.
ReplyDeleteThank you Nana for reading. That is very true and I do agree with you.
DeleteIt was such a delight to read your blog. it is indeed a crucial thing for a teacher to know how to pronounce his or her student's names. because as you mentioned, a shortening or nickname create no emotional attention or connection. and as teacher, parents, friends, classmates and so one, the health of our intercommunication starts by the humility and the willingness to learn how to pronounce someone's name.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful and insightful. Thank you for sharing. You are so right, knowledge is just a click away on most if not all subjects. Ignorance, especially by choice, is no longer a valid excuse.
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